Dating Transmen
Why do some people say I’m objectifying transmen because of this?
some people say I’m objectifying transmen because they’re the only guys I will date. How is that objectifying them? Some people like guys with green eyes, some people like guys with a mustache, and I like guys with vaginas. What’s so wrong about that?
Yeah, I think you’re objectifying us. Thanks for that.
How is that objectifying? Simple. You’re basing your attraction on something physical that we have no control over. Just like how someone who only likes people of certain ethnic backgrounds are turning members of that community into sexual objects.
Now, if you were to say “I like transguys more because they don’t objectify women like cisguys do.” that’d be understandable and not signs of you being a chaser who objectifies transguys. But since your remark reveals that you only see transguys as guys with alternative anatomy you’re part of the problem, not the solution.
Yes, Straight Women Will Date Transmen!
