Dating Obstacles

Should I start dating or focus more on school and work?
I’m 19 years old and I never had a boyfriend. I don’t mind being single, it’s just that I would like to find someone I can really confide in and be able to talk to about things that are happening in my life. The only real obstacle for me would be trying to find a balance between my work, school and my personal life. Any advice on what I should do?
When you are following your own, real passions, the guys who would be good for you will just naturally show up – don’t do the bar scene – just go about your life being yourself.
Best movie to watch in your situation is The African Queen — Katharine Hepburn is a genuine spinster- she’s been following her dream of being a missionary, and she finds her perfect, tho to all outward appearances unlikely, match. And helps the war effort.
Let’s talk about Marriage pt 3 Some of the Obstacles of getting married
