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I’m a married woman…but I can’t stop chasing women?
Okay – I’m 26, been married for almost 3 years to a somewhat nice guy. In the past I had been with a few women before, but never saw myself being in an emotional relationship with women…it was more about the sex.
Now I haven’t been with a women in over 4 years – but now I’m putting ads on dating & sex websites trying to hookup with another woman. I only want a friends w/ benefits situation, and don’t want to get emotionally involved…but, I know this is still cheating.
My desire to be with another woman is VERY STRONG…and I can’t get rid of it. Having sex with my husband repulses me now. I feel as if I’m being raped sometimes. I imagine he’s a female when he’s performing oral sex on me. But, I feel dirty and disgusted when he asks me to perform oral sex on him.
I don’t need the label, but I feel as though I may actually be a lesbian, or atleast bisexual w/ mostly lez feelings. Can I squash these feelings I’m having about women? Any tips? Or is it divorce?
Well, I am going to be very honest with you. From the little that you tell me, it seems that your connection with women is much more than sex and I know that is hard to deal with because of the way people and society view homosexuality. I am not passing judgment…trust me, but I will say this going behind your husband’s back and looking for women to be with is not fair to him and is not fair to you. You HAVE SOME DECISIONS TO MAKE…you can either not tell your husband and keep your secret….which I think is a bad move because of the strong feelings you have or…you can start going to marriage counseling and ask for professional help and ask what is the best way to probably tell your husband…which is very hard..or not tell anything and try your best not to mess with women…which is something that I don’t think will work..(just being honest)…Another question you have to ask yourself too is that do you really love your husband enough to make the marriage work….I am the last person to tell you whether to get a divorce or not because you are the only one that truly knows your situation, but you have to be in a situation that makes you happy and if this is not it, then you have to do what you have to so you can live your own life…
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