Dating Guide
The Sytem – The guide to dating and what women want?
In this book it sayins women are interested in Confidence, Self-Control and a thing called Challenge. Challenge is something most female writers do not talk about. It is kind of like playing hard to get. It is tied very similar to self-control. Has anyone read this book? If so has it worked for you. I have tried out the advice given and it has worked a little so far for me. Ladies, does this ring true, are you attracted to a man with these qualities. i am especially interested in the “challenge” aspect. More specifically are you women attracted to a guy who is not like the rest of all other guys and doesnt drule over you right away. He plays it cool and shows that you have no control over him and that he presents a CHALLENGE to you in which it is challenging to win HIM over, and not the other way around. Is this true ladies, do you find this self control appealing, and if so how important is it compared to other qualities?
I haven’t read the book but I can guarantee you that trying to be something or someone you’re not is going to fail.
The only thing any of these sad books do is teach you to pretend. But you can’t pretend forever and eventually you have to be yourself, So it’s infinitely easier to just be yourself from the beginning and then you’ll find someone who likes you just the way you are without pretending.
The Mr. Bean Guide To Dating
